Gail M (she/her)

Gail M (she/her)

Host - Full Mutuality

Gail is a former minister, writer, and photographer. Mother of two, big sister to many and lover of warm weather, beaches and watching videos of cats causing mischief.

She is also the voice behind the majority of Full Mutuality's written content on Facebook and Wordpress. Her passions include critiquing the foster care system she came out of, learning about spiritual abuse, deconstructing white evangelical culture, laughing through the pain and absurdity of it all and providing space for those who were marginalized to tell their stories. 

Gail is a Québécoise-Canadian, who enjoys swearing in French while eating poutine and watching her favorite hockey team, the Montreal Canadiens. She is a faux extrovert, enneagram 8w9, INFJ. She identifies as a cishet, neurodivergent, woman.


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S2E11: Beyond Abortion: The Need for Reproductive Justice — with Kimberly Mutcherson

Professor of Law Kimberly Mutcherson joins Gail and Nate to discuss the history of abortion access in the US, the current landscape of women's healthcare, and the need for reproductive justice in the pro-choice conversation. Professor Mutcherson was the former co-host of the Anthem-Award-winning podcast— The Power of Attorney —which is produced by Rutgers Law School . Follow Professor M...

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S2E08: My Cult Was in a Documentary, Part 2 — with Jessica Goforth
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1:37:2689.22 MB

S2E08: My Cult Was in a Documentary, Part 2 — with Jessica Goforth

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S2E07: We're Back! An Update on Life, Thoughts on Current Events, and the Deconstruction World
December 21, 2023x
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1:49:44100.47 MB

S2E07: We're Back! An Update on Life, Thoughts on Current Events, and the Deconstruction World

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1:47:0798.08 MB

S2E06: Jews for Jesus, Messianic Jews, & Other Christian Falsehoods About Judaism — with Rabbi Ariann Weitzman

Rabbi Ariann Weitzman spends some time addressing a few of the common misconceptions Christians have about Jews and educating us about the relationship between the two religions. This insightful conversation is among our favorite episodes, and we hope you find it as helpful and informative as we did! Bnai Keshet Reconstructionist Synagogue Four Common Misunderstandings about Judaism ---...

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S2E05: Bob Jones University Will Never Do Right — with Christopher Peterman

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S2E03: Stay-at-Home Dads Sipping Patriarchal Tears — with Scott Okamoto & Rick Pidcock
July 13, 2023x
3
1:16:1869.87 MB

S2E03: Stay-at-Home Dads Sipping Patriarchal Tears — with Scott Okamoto & Rick Pidcock

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